" It's not the glow you feel when snow appears;
it's not the Christmas card you've sent for years;
'not the joyful sound when sleigh bells ring;
nor the merry songs, children sing.

That little gift you send on Christmas day,
Will not bring back the friend you've turned away.

So may I suggest the 'Secret of Christmas'?
It's not the things you do at Christmas time,
but the Christmas things you do all year through."